Using separation to save your marriage!

From what I hear, the process of marital separation can save the union, if used properly.
Why this qualifier? because most couples enter separation process because it's required by law.
In other words, before divorce is granted, husband and wife have to spend about 12 months minimum (varies between states) in separation. This has to be legally documented and provable if required by the Superior Court, or wherever your matter is going to be heard.

But, what if both partners enetered separation period with one clear intention: to clear the bad mamories and try to save their marriage?
What if they've adopted a positive stance, and tried to get together with open minds?
Pity though, they can hardly count on help of the marrriage counselors; because they're typically geared up to preparing the couple for the inevitable: the break-up of their marriage.
Wouldn't it be worth trying, to get those counselors to assist the couple in mending the fences and sharing the marital love as on the next day after the wedding?