What about dating after divorce?

So, your marriage is in a mess. You've separated from your wife, and live alone. The divorce matters are going their way, with both parties having engaged their lawyers. What next?
In case you said: "Time to find a new partner!" You were perfectly right. And it means... dating.

Yes, after many years with your estranged wife, you can hardly recall what dating is all about. But, unless you get out and try to find new contacts, with a view of a friendship or relationship, you'll stay alone and miserly. Meeting different people will maintain your selfesteem, and help to get some relief from the usually stressful divorce proceedings.

But, where do you start?
Well, go out to places where people frequently meet: clubs, bars, concert halls, cinemas, etc. There are women that may even be in the same position as you: separated and/or divorced. There are also ladies who would find a casual relationship; if this is what you want, go for it!

Say, you've met great girl who's about your age, and keen on getting closer to you. Sooner, or later, the question is asked: "What's your personal status?" How do you answer that?
Never lie! Tell the truth exactly the way it is. If you demand honest from her, you should offer nothing less. Explain where you marriage is at, what are you plans for the future, and reveal anythig that can matter in your future relationship. Dating based on mutual honesty is very rewarding. And, you never know, you may have just shared personal moments with your new wife...